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Why did my Hinge likes suddenly stop?

By the bestsideofyou teamLast updated

If your Hinge likes stopped after a good start, it's usually a mix of three things: the early burst many people notice when they first join has worn off, you may have seen most of the people nearby, or your profile has gone a little stale. You can fix the last one today. The checklist below helps you rule out the rest.

The checklist

Your profile

  • My photos are still recent, and my first photo is still my best
  • I've updated at least one prompt since I made the profile
  • My profile doesn't contradict itself (old photos, outdated job, a trip I took years ago)

Your settings and area

  • I haven't narrowed my age range, distance or dealbreakers recently
  • I haven't moved, or changed my location, since likes dropped
  • I'm not in a small area where I may have seen most people nearby

Your habits

  • I use the app regularly, not in bursts
  • I'm reading profiles before liking, not liking everyone

Refresh, don't restart

A new first photo and one rewritten prompt give people who already scrolled past you a reason to look again. Pick prompts that show a different side of you than before. If your current answers are all jokes, try something warmer, like “My simple pleasures”. If they're all sincere, add a playful “Dating me is like”.

Make your answers more specific

Specific answers are easier to like. Compare two answers to “I go crazy for”:

I go crazy for · before
Coffee and good food.
I go crazy for · after
Filter coffee from the place on 3rd that still uses a hand grinder. It takes eight minutes. Worth it.
Same interest. The second one has a place and a habit someone can ask about.

The same goes for “The way to win me over is”: one small, real thing beats a list of qualities.

What to change first

  1. 1Swap your first photo for your best recent one, and update one prompt with something new.
  2. 2Check whether you changed your filters or location around the time likes dropped.
  3. 3Give the changes a week or two of normal use before deciding anything.

Run your updated answers through the prompt checker before you post them.

Questions people ask

Is it normal to get more likes when I first join?

Many people notice that, but Hinge hasn't published the details of how it shows new profiles, so we can't explain the exact cause. Treat the first week as a bonus, not a baseline.

Have I been shadowbanned?

Hinge hasn't said that shadowbanning is something it does, and we can't see inside the app. If your account was restricted for breaking rules, Hinge would normally tell you. Start with the checklist.

Should I delete and remake my profile?

We can't promise that a reset helps, and you lose your existing matches. Improving the profile you have is the safer first step.

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